Georgia, a friend of my wife's, was recently divorced
and trying to raise her two sons when the Gulf War broke out. She heard
about soldiers in the service who had no family and needed pen pals.
Letters addressed to "Any Soldier" were distributed by commanding officers
who noticed any soldiers getting little or no mail.
Georgia wrote to 25 such soldiers almost daily, most of
them men. Keeping up with 25 pen pals on a daily basis almost consumed
Georgia's time and talents. She sent poems, little stories, and words
of hope and encouragement.
When there were time constraints, she would write one
letter and copy it for everyone. Greetings were sent whenever she knew
about a special event, like a birthday.
One day, Georgia received a letter from a soldier that
was depressed and discouraged. She pondered as to how she could help
lift his spirits. It was then that she noticed that at work there were
paper clips of various colors.
Georgia took one of the yellow paper clips and photo copied
it in the palm of her hand. She sent this picture with the paper clip
with the following message: "This yellow paper clip that you see in
my hand represents a hug that I am sending to you. You can carry this
paper clip in a pocket or anywhere, and whenever you feel down, you
can just touch and hold it and know that somebody cares about you, and
would give you a hug if she were there." Georgia sent a copy of this
picture along with a paper clip and the message to each of her other
correspondents.
After the war ended, Georgia received one of the pictures
of her hand holding the yellow paper clip, and on the back were over
150 signatures of people that had been given her "hug."
During the years, Georgia named other paper clips. Pink
came to mean a kiss, green was for good luck, and so on. Years later,
Georgia was giving a class as part of a seminar for positive thinking.
She shared with the members of the class her paper clip symbolism, and
made a bracelet of multicolored paper clips for each of them.
One of the women exclaimed "So you're the one!"
The class member told Georgia that she was visiting her
brother and needed something to hold papers together. She had noticed
a yellow paper clip on the refrigerator held there with a magnet. She
borrowed the paper clip for her papers.
When the brother saw it, he grabbed it and scolded her,
and told her never to touch the yellow paper clip again. Now she knew
why.
No one will never know how far her message has spread,
nor how many lives have been touched by a simple yellow paper clip.